How To Choose The Right Cremation Urn

With thousands of urns and so many options to choose from, you may wonder where to begin in deciding which cremation urn is best for you or your loved one. Here are some practical tips to guide you through the selection process.


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How will the urn be used?

The primary purpose of a cremation urn, of course, is simply to hold the cremated remains of the deceased. But what will you do with the urn once it is filled with your loved one’s ashes? The answer to that question will determine the type of urn you need. To guide you in your selection, consider the following descriptions of the typical ways one might use a cremation urn:

  • Keeping the urn at home
    Displaying a cremation urn in a prominent place in your home is one way to show honor and respect toward your loved one. Keeping the urn at home is a tangible way to preserve memories of the deceased, and many families find comfort in the physical presence of their loved one’s ashes.
  • Scattering ashes
    Scattering urns feature a top opening designed to easily release the cremains. After scattering the ashes, the family may place keepsakes or flowers inside the scattering urn to memorialize their loved one.
  • Water burial
    Biodegradable urns made from organic and recycled materials are designed to break down naturally when water is introduced, rather than withstand the elements. Urns designed for water burials are completely water-soluble and made to sink and dissolve quickly. Another type of biodegradable urn is designed for land use, and may be buried in earth, displayed in the home, or inurned in a columbarium.
  • Columbarium niche inurnment
    Size is the most important consideration in choosing an urn for a columbarium niche. Be sure to find out the dimensions (height, width and depth) of the niche and choose an urn that will fit within that space.
  • In-ground Burial
    Burial containers and urn vaults are designed to support the earth around the urn and keep the ground from sinking at the burial site. A burial container is typically made of steel, polymer, or polystyrene and designed as a rigid outer container for a cremation urn, while an urn vault serves a dual purpose as both urn and burial container. Many families favor urn vaults for their affordability, and the attractive styling of urn vaults makes them suitable for display as well as burial.
  • Sharing cremated remains among family members
    Rather than entrusting the care of a loved one’s ashes to a single person, families may prefer to share the ashes among several family members by dividing the cremains into two or more keepsake or sharing urns. Many people find comfort in their grief by keeping their loved one’s ashes close at heart, and by using keepsake or sharing urns, more than one family member can share in that consolation.

What size urn do you need?

After you’ve determined the type of cremation urn you need based on the way you will use the urn, the next step is to determine the volume the urn must have in order to hold your loved one’s ashes. A cremation urn’s volume is measured in cubic inches and refers to the amount of space inside the urn.

As a general rule, you’ll need an urn with at least one cubic inch of space for every pound of body weight prior to cremation. For example, if the deceased weighed 150 pounds before cremation, you will need an urn that is at least 150 cubic inches or larger. If the measurements are very close or you’re just not sure which size to choose, we recommend selecting the larger size urn.

Transferring ashes into an urn

How to move ashes into a cremation urn
When you receive the cremation urn from the crematorium, your loved one’s ashes will be contained within a plastic bag inside the urn. The bag is designed to protect the cremains from spilling and other potential hazards, such as water. The bag also makes it easy to transfer the ashes from one urn to another. If you’re uncomfortable transferring the ashes yourself, you can bring the urns to a local funeral home or crematorium to be transferred. Funeral professionals are accustomed to such requests and will be happy to assist you.

Can I put my temporary cremation urn inside another urn?
We are often asked whether it’s possible to place a temporary cremation urn inside one of our urns. Most urns don’t have a large enough opening or internal space to accommodate another urn, and temporary urns aren’t designed to fit inside of another urn. Instead, we recommend that you transfer the plastic bag of ashes from the temporary urn to the new urn. Again, if you are uncomfortable transferring the bag yourself, you can bring the temporary urn along with the new urn to a local crematorium or funeral home for assistance.

Is this cremation urn too big?
The main concern, again, is to be sure the urn you purchase is large enough to hold your loved one’s ashes; beyond that, unless you are planning to keep the urn in a columbarium niche or other restricted space, there is really no such thing as an urn that is “too big.” Apart from these considerations, the size of the urn is simply a matter of personal preference.

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  • This was helpfeull. It clearly and quickly explained what I am looking at and what my options are.

    Comment by Rick — November 23, 2012 @ 8:36 am

  • My daughter Whitney died 5 yrs. ago. I want to get jewelry for myself and her children, but I am having a problem with Whitney’s sister. I don’t think she would wear it on her person, but would prefer to sit it somewhere. Do you think the teddy bear would be ok? Whitney was 8 yrs. younger than her older sister and therefore thought of Whitney as a child.

    Thanks for your opinion,
    Malaine, Whitney’s and Ashley’s mother

    Comment by Malaine Herold — December 8, 2012 @ 5:57 pm

  • The information on this site has been a tremendous help as we walk through our family’s loss and first cremation ceremony. I was able to fully arm myself with needed information and identify a lovely and unique urn to commemorate our loved one. This has made the process less stressful, and for that, we are truly grateful.

    Comment by S Gulledge — December 14, 2012 @ 4:13 am

  • I would like to add her a picture to Memorial.

    Comment by Pamela Kimble — February 10, 2014 @ 1:15 pm

  • Your site made it very easy at a difficult time. The software helped me pick a suitable urn in minutes. I will always be grateful for this site, and, while I hope I don’t have to recommend it much, I will when/if it is necessary.

    Comment by Lillian Santiago — December 18, 2014 @ 11:45 am

  • We recently lost our son, unexpectedly. The shock and horror of losing our only child is heartbreaking. The funeral home was very helpful, as were my brother and sister too. After the service, I had to pick up all the pictures, the memory book and of course, my son’s ashes. When I arrived at the funeral home, I was told the urn we had chosen, was too small to accommodate his ashes. The alternatives I was shown were simply unattractive. I found this website and was amazed at the selection available. Since I had no idea what I was doing, I was so happy to find the information here. I also learned how overpriced the inferior urns were at the funeral home. Thank you for providing the selection and voluminous information here. It has made an impossible task so much easier to bear.

    Comment by Nancy — December 11, 2016 @ 11:16 am

  • I am looking at the keepsake hearts for my brothers and myself. Are these somehow sealed so the remains don’t come out?

    Comment by Victoria Merrill — August 5, 2017 @ 6:41 am

  • Thank you for your comment. The heart keepsake urns will come with a small plastic bag and twist tie to enclose the cremains inside of when they are within the urn. This will prevent any cremains from leaking out of the urn. Some have also used a sealant on the lid of the urn to permanently seal the lid. If you should have any other questions please contact our support team at 1-800-979-8767 or support@perfectmemorials.com. Thank you!

    Comment by admin — August 11, 2017 @ 10:10 am

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